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Love is a feeling that we grow?

One of the most talked about issues in our day-to-day is unquestionably the love, passion and the difference between them. Just watching people on the bus on the street or in a cafe to realize that much of the talk revolves around these issues. Also, there is no person who has not gone through a major heartbreak in life. And the vast majority of people fall in love, is not matched, suffers, then falls for another in a cycle that never ends with passion, deception, passion, disappointment ....
Each one should, and certainly deserves out of this wheel and find true love. But it is not possible to step forward without first understanding what kept him in that litany. Only managed to overcome a mistake if we understand what caused it.
Certainly there are many kinds of passion and lots of reasons that lead someone to fall in love. One very common, is the fear of loneliness. Our fear of loneliness leads us to see the right person at anyone who appears, provided it has some characteristics that we identify. Only a handful of similarities lead us to fantasize that this person is our soul mate and "create" a person who does not really exist. In the end, we realized that there was, in fact, so much harmony with the old "soul mate" and stopped for that moment, to dream.
There is another kind of passion: that when something happens that draws us into a person, or be the eyes and smile in that moment that person has an inexplicable attraction without knowing why. This is most common in adolescents. This
person often has nothing to do with the passionate and if they break occurred, it was a disaster. Certainly, love is not something that comes out of nowhere and arrest you - this is called kidnapper, or something that makes you lose your breath and heart race - this is asthmatic bronchitis, or something that takes you to see the stars, and then sends pro back ground - this is called alien.
Passion is never a good thing. It is already scientifically proven that's bad for the heart, literally, as the physical organ, which is a feeling generated in the more primitive brain, and for the good of our heart, we must first falling out.
Materials were published about it in the magazine Veja and the Estado de S. Paulo. Also, put the matter to see that in order to damage the body is not very large, the passion has "expiration date" of up to 36 months. Many did not even last two.
To be a lasting and happy dating, at first it is necessary that neither is love. If the couples flirt by passion, the feeling will inevitably be followed and only after a separation, with both sides suffering. It is commonly said that when we date someone for whom we love, we are doing what our heart tells you to, when in fact this is not the real desire of the heart. Feelings are generated in the more primitive brain, and for the good of our heart, we must first falling out.
Materials were published about it in the magazine Veja and the Estado de S. Paulo. Also, put the matter to see that in order to damage the body is not very large, the passion has "expiration date" of up to 36 months. Many did not even last two.
To be a lasting and happy dating, at first it is necessary that neither is love. If the couples flirt by passion, the feeling will inevitably be followed and only after a separation, with both sides suffering. It is commonly said that when we date someone for whom we love, we are doing what our heart tells you to, when in fact this is not the real desire of the heart. Feelings are generated in the more primitive brain. Tell us what we're choosing someone based on feelings that do not even know where they came from is to be creating an external factor that will decide who the right person.
"Who is he chooses (a), not me," based on instincts that are unconscious. Passion is an unintentional and unconscious. What is not a conscious decision we will make us suffer even if there is correspondence, as when there is harmony between people, when they have no affinity, the dating will be a disaster. That we can not control things from the heart, we have no control over our feelings is absolutely false. We should not trust something that even we who have decided, a feeling that just "appeared" from nowhere and inevitably will pass and pass before us will suffer. If it is something that always goes on, because to date or marry someone whom we love?
So when we date or marry someone? While that is a conscious decision. When we come to see the other harmless from any reverie (someone sought by our fear of loneliness).

When no longer depend on anyone to be happy and find someone where there is total agreement, then we can open our hearts and allow the seed of love is planted in it.
Gradually, through small acts, love germinate. When you find one person in complete harmony in thoughts, feelings and desires, someone who thinks the same way that people in most things in life, you have goals, dreams, plans in common, which has the same vision of the world, we complete that gives us what we have and we can give that person what she does not, then true love can happen.
This love is like with a spark. When we feel that there is a seed planted in the heart of love for someone else when we do not want that person to ourselves, to satisfy wants and needs but to reach a new level of happiness with someone to complete fully, and when, especially there is deep respect and admiration for another person can consciously desire it and make the flower buds that exists in the heart of each one of us to open.
Strengthen ties with the other person as love grows, until we have a true feeling, indescribable.
This feeling so strong it can not sprout before people were already dating. But it requires the conscious love for it to sprout slowly and lasts, because it is common to cases of women 40 years of marriage by saying "I do not love my husband more!" and vice versa, boyfriends and if they declare their "love", then complete and declare their hatred.
That true love existed that has become hatred? It is therefore necessary to understand the causes of senseless passion to not get caught that and more when mSQL complete harmony between two people, both consciously "make love arise."

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